On campus at 1 a.m., the EE is tracing a jittery signal on a scope. The SWE just pushed a tiny script that saves a teacher an hour a week. The Aero kid glues a cracked airframe, rebalances the CG, tries again. You printed a pristine CAD bracket and told yourself you were done with grease. In EE, Aero, and SWE, the hobby becomes the job. In ME, the hobby is what you hoped to leave behind.
Those other pipelines filter for patience early. Debugging code, chasing noise, and fixing airframes are slow loops, and the people who stick with them already like the rhythm they will live inside later. Mechanical engineering takes two kinds of students, hands-on tinkerers and problem-set specialists who want hardware without touch time. That split makes expectations fuzzy. You picture systems thinking, not stripped threads. You imagine invention, not fixture buy-offs. Then the semester count creeps and you are still orbiting labs, CAD, and theory while the patience you were trying to avoid waits for you at the door.
Recruiters can read this mismatch. A SWE shows a GitHub with working commits. An EE brings schematics with oscilloscope traces and notes. An Aero shows flight logs, repairs, and performance. Your portfolio is a team CAD file, a campus machine shop part you could not personally fabricate, and a simulation snapshot. None of that proves you can live in the slow loop that physical products demand. So internships, the few that exist see Reason #5, slip away to the classmates who already like the loop, and the first real offer comes from a place that needs bodies near the line, see Reason #11 and Reason #20.
Day one on the job explains the fine print. You do not hold the socket, but the socket still decides your calendar. You move holes on drawings, call out threads, argue over a torque table, and update test plans so the unit survives vibration. Suppliers were locked before you arrived, so your clever redesign becomes a washer stack note and a test fixture tweak. The technician next to you learned the tools your work actually needs, see Reason #10 and you learn what that means for status the first time a build slips tolerance, and when your borrowed authority fails there is no shield around the title, see Reason #13.
You do not turn the wrench; you answer to it.